Monday, March 17, 2014

During  war  the military  commanders  plan for  coming   days,,  they busy for these preparations never  lose sleep   over  supposed  consequences. They think of  suspected threats  of attacks,  . They get can not  go  on continuously  worrying  over their  actions, failures on the front  , this would  not allow them to live  any longer.
    Dale Carnegie has given a lively instance of  USA’s Navy Admiral  Ernest  J King, he is said to  have spoken like this : “    I have supplied the besty  men with best equipment  and have also given them the best wisest mission. That is all I can do.
                    “ If a ship has been sunk, I can’t bring it up.If it is going to be , I can’t stop it. I can use my time  and much better working on tomorrow’s problem than by fretting about yesterday’s disasters . Besides, if I let those things get me, I would not last long “
                 This is what I saw in some war movies, particularly “ The Longest Day “ , “ Saving of Private Ryan “ and others. The soldiers saw their collegues dying before their eyes, Officers saw the soldiers dying in number, but they had not waited to morn the deaths, some grievously soldiers were to be left behind and they had to march forward and complete the mission.

           Whether in war or peace,  the chief difference   between   good and bad thinking is this : Good thinking deals with causes and effects  and leads to logical and  and constructive planning. While bad thinking  leads to  tension  and nervous breakdowns and consequent  disasters 


              One step enough for me
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The publisher  of the New York Times, Arthur  Hays Sulzberger once confided how he banished worries from his mind:  He said the “ He was never able to banish  his worries  and find peace until  he had adopted the following   5  words from the Church Hymn :
                “ One step enough  for me “
   “ Lead kindly light …
     Keep  you my feet                                                                                                                                         I do not ask to see
I    The distant scene;
     One step enough for me  “
          Indian thinker Acharya Rajnish had also said  in the same vein, he said  even when you want to set on a journey of 1000 miles, the first thing you will be required to do is  take one step forward…. In utter darkness , you can not remove the deep and long darkness  even if you have millions of tube lights and search batteries. You can not remove the darkness lying before you, it is impossible. What you need  to do is to take a lantern which can throw light only 3 feet ahead , that is enough. With every step taken , the light of the lantern  will go ahead, you can follow the lighted path, every 3 feet   but you can travel hundreds of miles  with the help of this tiny lantern  of 3 feet light ahead !
     

Thursday, March 13, 2014

The Art  of   ending  worries  and  starting  a healthy  and  wealthy  life
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Modern    life   has produced   many     comforts   which   our ancestors   never  thought  of. The cost of life has been rising so high , that our expectations chase the eluding  greatness since  morning  to  night  and  some  times  man  loses  sleep  over  problems  of  the  day  not  solved  and  the  monstrosity  of  the  problems  of  tomorrow  . The  problems  go  on heaping  over  head , man  loses  the charm  of  living  a happy  family  life  and  tension free future.

       Let us examine some lightening thoughts  of leading personalities .

   " Our main business  is not to see what lies dimly at a distance , but to do what lies clearly  at hand " -Thomas carlyle

     " Take therefor no thought for the morrow, for the morrow shall take  thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil  thereof. " --- Jesus 

                   Modern versions of Bible quote  Jesus more accurately. as saying,  " Have no anxiety for the tomorrow ."

              By all means think about tomorrow , weigh its good and evil consequences , but do not indulge in  worrying for bad consequences. make preparations to meet  the challenges of tomorrow , but keep no anxiety.